seeing things in a different perspective

I love to bloghop masa kerja dulu, heee...buhsan jer baca blog ni, baca blog tu, and agaknya mmg kita perempuan ni...mmg suka tgk pretty things, pretty people..tapi yg paling kita suka tgk bila org lain shopping n post ape yg diorang beli....ok..tak tau laa korang...but i like to read those kinda stuff...tgk ape yg org beli...tgk ape org lain pki,....

anyways, one day, ckp kat my husband, "bestnya org yang dah ade semua in life kan..."

then my husband jawab... "kita takleh asyik pandang atas, sekali sekala kene jugak pandang bawah.."

yes. true statement tu. masa tu mmg trus rasa bersyukur n selesa ngan apa yang ada....

But now, since doing business, I find that I think in a different way....in a more positive manner i think...

Klu dulu, bila "pandang atas" , i would always just look n see n feel envious of that person for having everything...saying things like "yelaaa....father die kaya, dah ade company sendiri, boleh laaa nak buat business"

and bila "pandang bawah", terus rasa selesa dengan apa yang ada...

now, bila "pandang atas" jer, I would think of ways for me to be like that person...grab all opportunities yang ada...jadikan inspiration, jadikan motivation pada diri sendiri...coz u know what...we could actually be as successful as that person is!!! nothing is imposable in this world...semua terpulang pada diri kita nak ke tak aje....theres no such thing as.."alaa...die boleh laa die mmg dah kaya..." no...lagi susah kita, sepatutnya lagi kuat determination kita nak buat yg terbaik...bukan bagi excuses..

and pandang bawah is for you to keep urself humble, to remind yourself that ade lagi org yg susah so that bila u dah successful, u remember that u need to give back, Allah bagi kita rezeki bukan untuk diri kita sendiri jer...untuk bantu keluarga kita, sahabat2 kita....if not dari segi kewangan pun, maybe dari segi lain...klu kita ade ability tu, kan seronok....and please...pandang bawah is not meant for you to make an excuse for u to feel comfortable..to not move forward.... jgn umur baru 27, duit cukup2 makan, trus kata dah selesa....bersyukur yer, sbb mmg ade org yg makan sehari sekali jer sbb takde duit, kita mmg mampu nak makan....tapi....jgn sbb org lain tak makan, kita ckp.."oklaaa....ade org lagi susah...so aku takyah laa buat ape2 sbb aku mampu makan 3 kali sehari...." .. kesimpulannya, klu pandang bawah tu membuat kan kita taknak move forward in life..then, tak payah laa pandang bawah....no use...

hmmm....ntah laaa...i'm not being smart or trying to teach people.... I am just saying that sometimes, we see things in a different way when we are in a diff phase of our life...itu jer....bukan nak kata skrg dah hidup selesa...i've still got a loooonnnngggggg way to go...theres still a lot for me to learn...for me to go thru...but I know what my dreams are...I nak what my goals are...insyaAllah...I will try my best to keep my self motivated and achieve all my dreams....insyaAllah...


jom kita pandang atas and pandang bawah for the right reasonss... ;) [does that even make sense???? whatever!!!]


we are not perfect. we are only human. but there is always space to improve ourselves to be a better person.


insyaAllah...







love,
aisyahsamsudin