Wednesday, March 24, 2010

confinement

bila cerita bab berpantang ni..i must say i do not know much..

even skrg dalam pantang pun..i'll go.. "mom...can i do this..or can i eat that..??"

but what i do know is, lain orang lain cara pantang...

certain people pantang takleh makan sayur..

ade yg pantang takleh minum air bnyk..

ade pantang makan jamu, pki pilis n param or whatever

ade yg amek ubat herba cina or akar kayu..

well for me..

bab makan, i serah 100% to my mom...what she cooks i eat..sometimes i'll ask.. "eh...boleh ke saya makan ni.." because penah dengar orang ckp tak boleh certain things..but my mom ckp.."ok..kenapa tak boleh pulak.." i take sayur because my mom said itu sumber vitamin and it helps me move my bowels...pendek kata, my mom is not-so strict about my food..she said, makanan pantang ni ikut orang..u try..if u cannot then dont take..senang aje..which is logic actually..tapi ofcourse bende sejuk n berangin die tak bagi kan..but other than that...boleh...

and i drink a lot of plain water..and i take nescafe ginger n honey because it helps me "go" ... and it also keeps me warm too...people say nescafe angin..but alhamdulillah...setakat ni ok .. :)

i did have my urut session (4 times), but not bertungku because mom said tok ajah didnt let her bertungku dulu sbb takut salah buat or something...mom left me to decide either nak bertungku or not..since she didnt do it..so i decided i didnt want to bertungku..i tried only the first time..but after that taknak dah.. lagipun i do have this fobia when it involves hot objects eversince half of kaki melecur kene air panas masa standard 6 dulu...

for some unknown reason, i dont wear all the param pilis thingy (sbb mak tak kasik kot?) ntah.. but i do wear minyak panas n my bengkung...but i only wear my bengkung during the day..malam i tried once or twice ntah..tak bleh tido..i felt like i was suffocating.. so i opted not to wear malam..certain people pki 24/7..mmg salute laa!..but not me..i need my sleep...since now i try not to sleep during the day..nak biasakan diri sbb tak lama lagi keje kan...

and i'm not taking any jamu...mainly because the first few weeks Aqil had jaundice so the doctor advised not to take any jamu..then when Aqil is ok, mom said jamu takut panas effect baby (naik ruam2) , so tak makan laa...but i do take honey and bidadari to keep my body warm sbb mom said, tujuan jamu tu untuk blood circulation and something..the bio teacher in her was talking...i was like..ok..yes..yes..ok.... anything you say is good for me i take mommy! ;)

i sleep with the aircond on...because the weather now is soooooooo freaking hot!! i tried to not use the aircond the first week..but kesian aqil...he had rashes all over...so mom said..pasang jer...habis org putih tu negeri sejuk..macam mana...which well..make sense...as long as i keep my body warm..it should be ok...so i'm wearing super tebal socks and a really2 thick comforter.. so even the ac is on..i am sweating like crazy...asalkan aqil takde rashes..ok laa.. ;)

someone told me mase pantang kene basuh rambut everyday, then ikat rambut tinggi2 n ketat2...well..i've tried..but it doesnt work for me...dari dulu lagi i couldnt tie my hair when its wet..sakit kepala..n now mase pantang buat camtu lagiiii sakit kepala..

so what i'm trying to say here is....cara orang pantang tak sama...it doesnt work the same for everyone...so dont go say "kalau tak sayang badan buat laaa...makan laa....badan kita ni nak pakai lama....." likeeee little-miss-know-it-all.... its annoying and somehow rude i think...nak cakap..cakap elok2... like.. "klu boleh elakkan..kita tak tau effect macam mana kat badan kita nanti." sejuk laa sikit org yg mendengar.... we were taught budi bahasa dari kecik kannnnnn...

hmmmm...emo kejap pagi2 hari ni...huhu..taktau laa...org kata ape2 after pantang baru rase...bisa badan..lengoh2...but i am trying..and i am following ape mak saya ckp saya boleh n tak boleh...so i think i'm doing ok...just because cara u beza dari cara i...tak payah nak kondem2...tho i know it comes from the right place with the right niat..but bila cara ckp tu kasar..saya pun jadi macam tak boleh nak menerima....lumrah manusia..saya hanyalah insan biasa...chewahhh..


picture of the day :



aqil : rileks laa mama...aqil kan ade.. ;)




mommy loves you sweetheart!!! ;)





xoxo

3 comments:

wahwo said...

way to go Aisyah..hehehe.

m@Ri@ said...

mak maria pun mcm tu gak..dia ckp kalau blh mkn teruskan..klu takleh mkn br jgn mkn..so tak strict sgt..tp mak mertua maria yg jaga maria..so far ok je..cuma mula2 je agak susah sbb mama tak fhm lg perangai menantu dia yg mmg memilih mkn..huhu..jamu pun maria tak mkn..n param/pilis pun tak pakai..n husband maria kata.."awak ni pantang koboilah.."hahah..

browneyes said...

yes, do what is best for you, way to go Omarian's style