Thursday, March 25, 2010

this is what family is all about...

just read mom's blog... apparently Aqil is now 1 month old ( I am so occupied looking after him, I forgot the dates already..) wrote a post all about the day Aqil was born... its so sweet and i want to share it with all of you..especially my little Aqil ( I mean when he knows how to read that is..hehe..)

I am torn between linking my mom's blog here or copy n paste what she wrote..hmm...

what the heck..i'll do both.. ;)

To my little hero,

This was written by your Tok Wan specially dedicated for you..;)


You are one month old today

Dearest little Aqil.

Today is 25th Mac 2010. That means that you are one month today. You may not be able to read what your tok hajjah wan is about to write now but tok hope that in many many years to come , when you are big and strong, and able to read and understand alot of things, your mom will show this piece of snippet to you.

Tok wants to tell you that even before you were born, you were much awaited by all the Omarians.Especially by your grand aunts. They were all coining names , glamourous names so as to avoid the clise title of Tok Teh, Tok Su and so on. There was a lot of wireless communications from Subang to Kuantan to Cheras, Sentul, Bukit Jelutong and Alor Star included.

So here are the details of sms that took place between ur grandma and all her sisters. How everyone were there for your mum and me through all the difficult moments .it was exhausting but it was worth the wait.

Feb 23 2010 5.20 am : Dear all. The countdown has begun. pls say a a prayer for her. hope she'll go through this with ease and in quick time. Thanks

Atam: We r with u

Teh : Ok, noted. We will pray 4 mum n baby.

Tiza: Insyallah. Our prayers are with her.

Rufa: Insyallah

Amal: She has gone into labour

Me : Ya. Now at HKL

Atam ( 6.36am): Any sight of lil suparman yet?..tizah n i r anxious 2 make it a
double celeb.

Me ( 6:51:21 am) : She is now at HKL. When she knocked at my door, the contractions were 1 in 20 mins but not strong. that is typical us.but she is already bleeding heavily. maybe the cervix had opened quite big. am waiting for news from ali.

Aisyah ( 6:53:42 am) takde bukaan lagi..diorang tgh bincang nak masuk wad or nak suruh balik sbb wad penuh..

Me (7:38:04am) : Kalau boleh minta masuk wad . tak lama dah tu.

Aisyah (7:40:31 Am): Dah masuk. 2nd class. but nak mintak 1st class nnti.. td ist class penuh..sbb dah due kot kene masuk...doc nak check baby,..

Rufa 7;47;36 am : they should let her stay at d hosp. she is definitely due.

Me 7;51;57 am : breaking news 2. forwarded message from aisyah

Rufa 7:54:18 am : ok. thats an improvement..tq 4 update

Amir Iswadi 8.00:36 am : aisyah mcm mana?

Me 8:19:38 am : blm bersalin tapi dah masuk wad.insyallah. doakanlah di permudahkan semua urusan dia

kak 8:46:36am: ok. semoga semuanya selamat. keep me updated

Teh 6:01:29 pm : r d aunties great aunt yet?

Me : 6:33:47 pm : aisyah is being discharged. despite the blood flow and the contractions, there was no dilation at all. so will inform u of the latest when i see her in a little while

Teh 6:35 pm : ok, tq

Rufa 6:35:53 pm : tq 4 update. We will doakan dipermudahkan aisyah bsalin

Amal :6:36:02 pm : tq 4 updates. I bru bgtau Ali maybe jnr nak tgu the nenek abis kursus bru dia nak kluar

Me 7:24:42 pm : mungkin kena pecah ruyung baru keluar kot.

Feb 24 9:33:39 pm

Me : Hi dears.episose 2 chapter with aisyahat selayang hosp. thecontractions stronger and dilation is 3cm. called up 2 private hosp. reluctant to admit her cos no medical record with them. took her at 4 am, she didn't sleep at all. am very anxious for her.

Rufa 9;36;21 am insyallah u will be tok by 2day. she must be very tired. poor girl. r u there 2 give morale support?

Tiza 9:36:46am - our prayers are with u and her.

Me 9;37 :14am - ya. hope to be able to enter labour room.

Teh 9:38:01am :-ok take care 2 grdma n niece

Me 9:38:06am - thanks. she is sitting on d chair. no bed yet.

Amal 9:39:19am - ouw ok. insyalllah. u also need to practise breathing with her then.

Me 9:40:37 am- no bed yet. she is sitting on d chair. told her to rest and try to get some sleep

Amal 10:03:13am - CNY babies, haha

Kak 10:05:17am - chapter 2. will b with u shortly

Kak 11:28:36 am - plan to go. is aishah in labour ward?

Me 11:33 17am - aisyah has gone into the waiting ward but no sign of her. dont know what is happening

Me 11: 41: 14am - . kak i think u tak payah mai lagi sbb u x boleh naik atas ke sini. only husband and mother shj. i will inform u when its over. thanks.

kak 11: 44 :13am - thanx. infact i took overdose of anti histamine last nite. now trying to keep my eyes open

Me 11:44: 49am - take a good rest

kak 11: 50: 09 am - let me know when u have a new chapter

Me 11: 50 :42am - will do

Amal 12: 04: 05pm - how's aisya how r u?

Teh 12: 05 :23 pm - aiya,dnt want tok la, na teh 4 me. evrybdy na wa, na tam, na tizah, nacippa, na cu, d guys can carry d tokngah n tok man, hw abt it

me 12 :07 :54 pm- no sign of her. i am all nerves

Amal 12 :09: 38pm - ouw. dah dpt katil or dah masuk labour room?

Me 12 :10: 48pm - not yet. still 3 cm dilation. she wants me to go home

Amal 12: 16 :25pm - ouw. masih 3. hmm lama jugak ek.

Me 12:18: 43 pm - just like me. but it can suddenly dilate in within a couple of hours

Me 2: 16: 30 pm - missed ur call. was praying. now baru dpt masuk ke wad bersalin. they broke her bag at 4 cm dilatiion around 1 pm tadi

Aziz 3: 31 :19pm - better still paati wa, paati ngah,paati lang, paati tam, paati teh,paati zah (oyoyo all this while tizah is the short for paati zah...hahaha paati pa and paati cu. as for the male omarian we will go with the tok pnya title..hihihi

kak 3: 47 :37pm - which chapter now. ya allah tiada sesuatu yg mudah melainkan kau permudah kannya. amin

Me 3 :49 :15pm - chapter 1 episode 3 ; finally got a bed at 130 pm. burst the water bag at that time too. she asked for epidural.approx time of delivery 6 hrs after that. am home to take a nap.

Aziz 3: 51: 56 pm - congrats tu paati and new mum. boy or girl?

Amal 3: 52: 10 pm - ouw ok. yeah have a rest. so she got the epidural?

kak 3: 55: 40 pm - take care

Tiza 3: 56: 01 pm- u think u r so smart lah; if we r paati, u guys r anir ngah n anir ma. ayo ayo ada lu jugak

Me 3 :56: 11pm - not yet

Aziz 3 :59 :16 pm - sorry false alarm. i misread your statement regarding the 6 hours. my thousand apology

Rufa 4: 07: 44pm - i guess d excitement to terima our first cucu n cicik for mak got us figuring out d best glamorous gelaran 4 uncles n aunties.d lucky kid is sure lucky to have us eh.belum bjumpa lagi dah surrounded by all d love.

Ali 5: 43:33 pm - doc blm cek lg.. lepas epidural trs boleh sengih.. br bole brcakap. setakat ni sumer ok. nnt after doc cek sy habaq mai..

Me 5 :44: 16pm - ok

Me 5:50: 10 pm - chapter 1 episode 4 . message drm ali 5 mins ago ;doc blm cek lg.. lepas epidural trs boleh sengih.. br bole brcakap. setakat ni sumer ok. nnt after doc cek sy habaq mai..

Teh 5 :52: 23 pm - ok

Rufa 5: 53 :24 pm - amboi, he is trying to speak utara. sounds cute. got side track, good to hear that she is better although must be tired n anxious

Me 5 :54: 33 pm - maintain cool the father to be. its the grandma to be who is palpitating like crazy

Amal 5 :55: 29pm - ok, i can juz picture her tsengih on the bed

Rufa 5: 59: 52pm - hope u not having contractions too. u may need d epidural too. he he

Aziz 6 :00 :15pm - ok. thanks

me 6 00 53 more of extra dose of my pressure pills

amal 6: 01: 07pm :- dont forget the jeling2

Aisyah in the labour room

tiza 6: 38 Pm :- buat album rakamsemua detik2. as 4 aisyah; siap bt sign peace lagi, nw it looks like she is ALL 2 comdfortable, no urgency 4 lit A

teH 8: 08 :45Pm : - little ali out?

me 8 :10 :09 pm :- not yet mah. baru 6 cm dilated

Teh 8: 24 :36 pm :- oh my gdness, lamanya. take care.

0122175200 9: 37: 52 pm: - salam, mak lang, how's aisyah doing?

me 9: 39: 06:- still in labour room. belum dengar apa2 dari ali lagi.

me 10 :14 :46 pm : -mcm mana perkembangan terkini? mesti dah letih aisyah lama sangat

ali 10: 19 :06 pm : - 9 .30 td br 7 cm..hmm..ntah la doc tgh reload epidural...

me 10: 20 :57pm :- insyallah tak lama lagi tu. tell her to hang in there. rehatkan diri.

kak 11: 24: 41:- are u still at selayang hosp. hoping that we ar in the final chapter.

Feb 25 2010

Ali 2.45 am dah selamat.. jam 130 am

Me 2 45 54 alhamdullilah

me 2: 59: 53 am: - Dear all. aisyah selamat bersalin at 130 am tadi.

rufa 3 :02 :08 am:- alhamdullilah tok. tahniah ali, aisyah n tok sam

teh 3: 02: 49 am:- alhamdullilah syukur, a very long labor, all is fine with baby, mother n grandma. cnngrat kakchick, officially tok nw.

me 3 :04 :48 am:- alhamdullilah. tq tok teh

me 3 :05: 32am :- tk tok cikfa

teh 3 :06 :37a m :-ok, take a gd rest, c u soon.

rufa 3: 06 :52:- :-):-)

kak 5: 58 :38: am:- syukur

kak 5: 59: 35am :- syukurALHAMDULLILAH

aziz 6 :42: 02 am :- alhamdullilah. boy or girl?

me 6 :42 :36 am :-boy

So little Aqil, I could never thank enough to all my sisters and brothers and sons and daughter,nieces and nephews (your grand aunts and grand uncles, your aunts and uncles), few more of my close friends . They are family , always there through thick and thin.

Both of us, tok hj sam and tok hjh wan hope you will have a wonderful future ahead . Love your mama and Ba as much as they love you.Be humble and kind to all.Love them all like they all love you. God Bless you my precious grandson.

ps: Mom, if you're reading this... thank you...for everything...words just cannot describe how grateful I am to have you as my mother and how much I love you...

pss: dear aunties n uncles... I love you all too.... you guys are just simply the best..and I thank Allah for giving me such a wonderful family...



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